Month: March 2017


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Oh my! I’m literally humbled by this! 😃 And no, I wasn’t expecting a blogpost 😊 I’m really grateful for this!

the flying dutchman

OK so it’s Mfon’s birthday, Happy birthday dear, she made me do this, that’s it, am done.

OK here are a couple of lessons I have learnt from her.

  1. Our heroes are human.
  2. We all have issues, shouldn’t stop us from moving forward.
  3. Forgiveness sometimes takes time, give it time.
  4. Represent your faith always.
  5. Follow your passion, your dreams.
  6. Play a little.
  7. Open up to people.
  8. Trust can be earned, lost and re-earned .
    9 . Be your own kind of beautiful.
  9. Love family.
  10. Rise above the status quo
  11. Be humble.
  12. Respect.
  13. Know your place.
  14. Be accommodating.
  15. It’s a small world.. 🙂 .
  16. Give things time, let them grow.
  17. Accept your Hurt, deal with them.
    19 . Travel, see the world.
  18. Be different
  19. Have a mentor
  20. Mentor someone
  21. Have a bestie

Happy birthday ma

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Sugar, Spice and Everything Nice!

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This post has nothing to do with the topic- maybe a little. But hey, before you accuse me of false advertising, just hear me out. 😉 Read the rest of this entry »


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phototastic-03_03_2017_c1923654-fe70-4d3f-8816-6c323a3b7f88Dear Diary,

The rains are back! Woo-hoo! Of course I can only be this excited when I’m not outside at the mercies of the elements 😉 But really, those rainy moments sure ease out the crazy heat in this region. That said, how has your week been? Good, bad or just there?  Read the rest of this entry »

Moving Forward

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the flying dutchman

Moving forward seems like a concept everyone should be interested in and rightfully so, I don’t think we were designed for stagnation hence the reason for growth, and many people desire strongly to move forward however a lot of us don’t, why?? I will tell you in a moment.

So am chilling with SS this evening and she says to me she’s moving forward she can’t hold on to things behind, in her past or below (of cause she didn’t use those exact words but that’s what I heard.)
And whether she notices or not she sends me down a trail of thought, this thought, can I move forward if I keep visiting my past, this I think is what a lot of us do and also the reason why we don’t end up getting to where we want to.
So here are a couple of reasons why it’s not…

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Let’s Get Real

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If you spend some time looking at what goes on under the sun, your heart will be full of grief. So many things are happening at the same time; new governments have been raised, economic crisis abounds, people losing their jobs, husbands leaving their wives for younger girls, like genders attract and unlike repel, people loving themselves in extremities while hating their neighbor, people denying the existence of God while being so consumed by the world’s goods. Things get worse every day. And it is so easy to lose hope of things ever getting better.   Read the rest of this entry »


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DTM (2)Dear Diary,

I’ve been a little lost in time and space. Sailing from the present to the unforeseen future and back. Then there’s the past which some of us are afraid to visit just so it doesn’t hold us back with its stubby sticky fingers.  Read the rest of this entry »